tips on radiance

I'm still lmao at the time someone on Tumblr who must not be named but is actually p horrible irl sly digged me by making a post abt how "male and male-bodied people" (vocab they only learned from me and still managed to fuck up) are the only ones who make fun of them for taking selfies bcs when you're trying to discuss something seriously with someone and they're taking pictures of themselves and you lightly joke about it instead of calling it out for how fucking rude it is like you should yr apparently being oppressive. And for all the kumbaya shit on there, something as simple as looking past biology, despite explicitly stating beforehand you're in no way male identified, still manages to slip thru and you get lumped in with men. And what the fuck does "men and male-identified" mean in this context except to serve an essentialist agenda where all men (read: those who "look like men") r evil and the other which is dumb and false. Like, I may talk about hating men on occasion (I hate male privilege and feel unsafe around many male-identified people but to genuinely say I hate all men is reductive as hell so I try to not) but I'm not out here making a damn fool of myself and spouting off about shit I don't know anything substantial about out of sheer narcissism.